Respect your partner’s preferences when it comes to work and finances.
Would they like to work or stay at home?
Do your values align?
If not, talk about it early.
Both partners must come to an agreement. At least one person should be financially responsible for supporting the home—but in today’s world, roles are evolving.
Some women are comfortable paying bills.
Some couples prefer to share responsibilities.
What matters most is clarity and agreement.
According to accord.ie:
“Trusting one another is one of the most important elements of your relationship and a crucial element of any lifetime commitment.”
Transparency is key.
Know:
- Does your partner live on credit?
- Do they have savings or investments?
Nothing should be hidden.
Also, watch out for selfishness.
Sometimes people carry past experiences or family patterns into relationships without realizing it. Don’t be quick to judge—but don’t ignore it either.
Marriage is for two—not one.
Genesis 2:24 reminds us of unity and oneness.
Selflessness can be learned, so communication is key.
A godly marriage doesn’t start on the wedding day—it starts from courtship. That’s where the foundation is built.
And here’s a hard truth:
Entering marriage without a job or stable income is risky.
It’s unwise to plan only for the wedding and ignore the life after.
Faith requires action.
Instead of hoping things will work out after marriage, position yourself before.
No parent wants to see their child struggle—and you shouldn’t plan for that either.
Set your finances before saying “I do.”
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— Written by Anu Mustapha
