Finance in Marriage – Talk About Money Before Saying ‘I Do’
Ignoring money matters during courtship is a big risk! Financial insecurity in marriage causes tension and conflict. Questions like “Who is the spender? Who is the saver? When would we be having our first car or house? Who works and who stays at home? Are we both working? How much do you earn?” Some people […]
How to Be a Great Spouse Today
If you work from home, for instance, your love life or expression has to be redefined. In fact, you may need to spend more time with the kids. Life is no longer the same. In today’s complex world, you must “adjust” and learn how to be a great spouse. To be relevant, you must upgrade, […]
When Your Fiancé’s or Friend’s Character Is Hidden
Never marry a pretender Some people are not who or what they claim to be. In public, they appear ‘God-like,’ but in private, they are mischievous! If you really want to know who someone is, ask their spouse. It takes grace and a discerning spirit to identify pretenders. They are goats in beautiful sheep’s clothing. […]
Who Pays For Dates?
David completed his profile on KonnectNow and matched with Sarah. Excited to finally meet her, he planned their first date, but when the bill came, he realized he hadn’t budgeted enough for the evening. Sarah, without missing a beat, covered the difference. Crisis averted, but it revealed something worth talking about: be responsible, and communicate […]
When You Are Tired of Waiting for a Spouse
Life itself can sometimes make no sense. If you desire someone to share your life with, a life partner and the years keep passing, the waiting can become tiring. You may feel lonely, frustrated, or even wonder if something is wrong with you. You are not alone. Many people feel the same way. When you […]
A Healthy Relationship Has a Price
Real love goes beyond feelings—it’s about transparency and sincerity. A person deeply in love won’t hide his or her feelings. This isn’t just about liking someone; it’s about genuinely falling in love. True romance cannot be faked. You can’t pretend to love and not give, share, care, or dare for your partner. To dare means […]
Can Your Relationship Survive a Dry Season?
Tobi used to pray with his girlfriend Jesse every night. Now, most nights, they just say goodnight and scroll their phones instead. Nothing dramatic happened, no fight, no betrayal, just distance. The kind that creeps in when devotion becomes routine, and routine slowly becomes silence. She noticed it first. The prayers got shorter. The scripture […]
Holding Offense vs. Holding On
Funmi could recite the moment word for word: what he said, how he said it, the silence after. It had been four months. He had apologized. She had said “it’s fine.” It was not fine. She just had not figured out how to actually let it go. That is the tricky part about forgiveness. It […]
Let’s Talk About Pre-Marital Sex
Let’s Talk About Sex Before Marriage If you’re having sex with someone you’re not married to, the Bible calls it sexual immorality. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been dating, how committed you feel, or whether you plan to get married one day. God’s standard doesn’t change because our feelings do. “For this is the […]
Where Exactly Is the Line? Kissing, Sleepovers & Just Vibing
Very few People wake up one morning and decide, “Today we’ll fall into sexual sin.” It usually starts much smaller. One late night. One sleepover. One cuddle, that shouldn’t have happened. One kiss that shouldn’t have happened. One private moment where nobody else was around. Some of the most common question Christian singles ask. […]
