When You Are Tired of Waiting for a Spouse
Life itself can sometimes make no sense. If you desire someone to share your life with, a life partner and the years keep passing, the waiting can become tiring. You may feel lonely, frustrated, or even wonder if something is wrong with you. You are not alone. Many people feel the same way. When you […]
A Healthy Relationship Has a Price
Real love goes beyond feelings—it’s about transparency and sincerity. A person deeply in love won’t hide his or her feelings. This isn’t just about liking someone; it’s about genuinely falling in love. True romance cannot be faked. You can’t pretend to love and not give, share, care, or dare for your partner. To dare means […]
Can Your Relationship Survive a Dry Season?
Tobi used to pray with his girlfriend Jesse every night. Now, most nights, they just say goodnight and scroll their phones instead. Nothing dramatic happened, no fight, no betrayal, just distance. The kind that creeps in when devotion becomes routine, and routine slowly becomes silence. She noticed it first. The prayers got shorter. The scripture […]
Holding Offense vs. Holding On
Funmi could recite the moment word for word: what he said, how he said it, the silence after. It had been four months. He had apologized. She had said “it’s fine.” It was not fine. She just had not figured out how to actually let it go. That is the tricky part about forgiveness. It […]
Let’s Talk About Pre-Marital Sex
Let’s Talk About Sex Before Marriage If you’re having sex with someone you’re not married to, the Bible calls it sexual immorality. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been dating, how committed you feel, or whether you plan to get married one day. God’s standard doesn’t change because our feelings do. “For this is the […]
Where Exactly Is the Line? Kissing, Sleepovers & Just Vibing
Very few People wake up one morning and decide, “Today we’ll fall into sexual sin.” It usually starts much smaller. One late night. One sleepover. One cuddle, that shouldn’t have happened. One kiss that shouldn’t have happened. One private moment where nobody else was around. Some of the most common question Christian singles ask. […]
Social Media & Modern Romance — A Christian Perspective
Never before has meeting people been so easy. And never before has finding the right person been so difficult. You can connect with someone in Lagos before breakfast, someone in London at lunch, and someone in Toronto before you go to bed. Yet many Christian singles have never felt more confused. We have more […]
The Art of Waiting Well: Finding Purpose in Singleness
Trinity had a rule. She didn’t talk about being single. Not at family dinners. Not at her cousin’s wedding. Not when her mum called on Sunday afternoons with that voice, the one that wasn’t really asking about her week. She’d built a whole system around looking fine. She poured herself into work, into her girls, […]
How to Recognize God’s Timing in Love
She deleted the app again. Third time this year. Not because the guys were terrible. Not because she’d given up on love. But something in her spirit kept whispering, not yet. And she was exhausted from fighting that feeling just to look like she was “putting herself out there.” If that hits close to home, […]
Should Christians Be in a Relationship with Someone of a Different Faith Level?
Tolu met him at a wedding. Fine. God-fearing , or so she thought. He said grace before meals, knew his scriptures, showed up to church when she invited him. Three months in, she realised something felt off. He wasn’t against God. He just wasn’t really with Him either. No personal prayer life. No desire to […]
