Someone Else’s Wedding Announcement Is Not Proof That God Has Forgotten You

Hmmm. Sometimes, it feels so boring and lonely out there when you have no special lover or spouse. You see people posting their partners, going on dates, getting engaged, and celebrating anniversaries. Meanwhile, you are wondering when it will be your turn. Listen, you are not alone. And you are not forgotten. The Bible says, […]
Finance in Marriage – Talk About Money Before Saying ‘I Do’

Ignoring money matters during courtship is a big risk! Financial insecurity in marriage causes tension and conflict. Questions like “Who is the spender? Who is the saver? When would we be having our first car or house? Who works and who stays at home? Are we both working? How much do you earn?” Some people […]
KonnectNow Brings Lagos Singles Together This October

In a world where connections often begin with a swipe, a profile picture or a DM, there’s still something special about meeting someone in real life. There’s something different about stepping out. That’s the idea behind the KonnectNow October Lagos, Nigeria Mix & Match. It’s an opportunity to meet christian singles who value faith, […]
When Your Fiancé’s or Friend’s Character Is Hidden

Never marry a pretender Some people are not who or what they claim to be. In public, they appear ‘God-like,’ but in private, they are mischievous! If you really want to know who someone is, ask their spouse. It takes grace and a discerning spirit to identify pretenders. They are goats in beautiful sheep’s clothing. […]
When You Are Tired of Waiting for a Spouse

Life itself can sometimes make no sense. If you desire someone to share your life with, a life partner and the years keep passing, the waiting can become tiring. You may feel lonely, frustrated, or even wonder if something is wrong with you. You are not alone. Many people feel the same way. When you […]
A Healthy Relationship Has a Price

Real love goes beyond feelings—it’s about transparency and sincerity. A person deeply in love won’t hide his or her feelings. This isn’t just about liking someone; it’s about genuinely falling in love. True romance cannot be faked. You can’t pretend to love and not give, share, care, or dare for your partner. To dare means […]
Holding Offense vs. Holding On

Funmi could recite the moment word for word: what he said, how he said it, the silence after. It had been four months. He had apologized. She had said “it’s fine.” It was not fine. She just had not figured out how to actually let it go. That is the tricky part about forgiveness. It […]
The Art of Waiting Well: Finding Purpose in Singleness

Trinity had a rule. She didn’t talk about being single. Not at family dinners. Not at her cousin’s wedding. Not when her mum called on Sunday afternoons with that voice, the one that wasn’t really asking about her week. She’d built a whole system around looking fine. She poured herself into work, into her girls, […]