When Your Fiancé’s or Friend’s Character Is Hidden
Never marry a pretender Some people are not who or what they claim to be. In public, they appear ‘God-like,’ but in private, they are mischievous! If you really want to know who someone is, ask their spouse. It takes grace and a discerning spirit to identify pretenders. They are goats in beautiful sheep’s clothing. […]
When You Are Tired of Waiting for a Spouse
Life itself can sometimes make no sense. If you desire someone to share your life with, a life partner and the years keep passing, the waiting can become tiring. You may feel lonely, frustrated, or even wonder if something is wrong with you. You are not alone. Many people feel the same way. When you […]
A Healthy Relationship Has a Price
Real love goes beyond feelings—it’s about transparency and sincerity. A person deeply in love won’t hide his or her feelings. This isn’t just about liking someone; it’s about genuinely falling in love. True romance cannot be faked. You can’t pretend to love and not give, share, care, or dare for your partner. To dare means […]
Holding Offense vs. Holding On
Funmi could recite the moment word for word: what he said, how he said it, the silence after. It had been four months. He had apologized. She had said “it’s fine.” It was not fine. She just had not figured out how to actually let it go. That is the tricky part about forgiveness. It […]
The Art of Waiting Well: Finding Purpose in Singleness
Trinity had a rule. She didn’t talk about being single. Not at family dinners. Not at her cousin’s wedding. Not when her mum called on Sunday afternoons with that voice, the one that wasn’t really asking about her week. She’d built a whole system around looking fine. She poured herself into work, into her girls, […]
