Some broken relationships should have actually led to marriages but for ignorance in many cases.
If you sense some wrong signals or red flags about who you are going out with, you may need to take it slow, pray and discuss about it before its too late.
The core values of your intended life partner should align with your core values.
The core values define who a person is and what their beliefs are.
For instance, as a believer, God should be the number one ‘core’.
Questions like “Who am I?” and “Who is my partner?” must be answered clearly before getting married.
Do not say ‘I will manage him or her like that’. No, God has the best for you only if you believe.
Jeremiah 29 vs 11
Your partner should be a believer like you.
Be encouraged if it seems as though time is not on your side. It is better to stay single than to marry the wrong fellow. Desperation can lead to hell on earth if one enters the wrong relationship.
Exercise some patience but be ‘positively’ expectant because God has not given up on you. Trust God.
Ensure that you know what God is saying. Ask him, ‘Lord what are you saying?’. It takes discernment to receive right. Though it tarries, wait for it. It will not tarry.
