Sex can make a man and a woman have very strong affection for each other even if they are not in love. When there is pre-marital sex, the people involved may be deceived about how emotionally attached they feel towards each other – because of soul tie.
This can be a big burden! Premarital sex is a no-go area, it grieves the spirit of God.
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18-20
So many young people fall victim to this. They taste the wrong meat and eventually swallow poison, and they think that they are in love. It can be too late if they don’t repent. Time will tell. Young folks, look well before you leap.
That healthy and beautiful lady or rich and handsome guy may be the opposite tomorrow, it takes spiritual eyes to truly see.
Don’t be moved by money, fame or by your emotions alone. Be led by the spirit of God to choose a life partner!
Sex, a blessing that strengthens relationships, should ONLY be had in marriage. Sex strengthens marital bonds spiritually, physically and emotionally.
Are you truly in love or lust?
If you are courting or dating, please note that people don’t change. What you see in your friend today is what you will eventually ‘see’ in him or her tomorrow. Money or bigger opportunities may only amplify their attitudes. So, don’t be afraid to call it quit on time if you have to. ‘
‘Love hormones’ are released into the brain when you are in love, they make you feel excited about your lover as though they are the world’s best. They make you feel happy. You may easily let go and forgive your friend. You easily permit things for your lover that usually you would struggle to permit for others including your family members. Hey, watch out!
However, as you wish to prepare for marriage, also be prepared to break wrong relationships that are unworthy. It is better to marry late than to do the wrong one. Do not be afraid to say no to a ‘wrong relationship’.
True love is based on Christ, yes, even true emotional love. Premarital sex is not a sign that he or she loves you. Lust is not love. God frowns at having sex before marriage. If your friend loves you, then patience must be evident in marriage pursuit.
Chemistry and feelings are great and awesome to experience, but do not turn blind eyes to negative warnings and red signals.
I pray that your choice for a godly life partner will be the right and blessed one. May the Lord help you choose intelligently. And I pray that you are eventually happy with your decision in life.
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— Written by Anu Mustapha
