Ignoring money matters during courtship is a big risk.
Financial insecurity in marriage causes tension and conflict, and many relationships suffer simply because the right conversations never happened early on.
Questions like:
- Who is the spender and who is the saver?
- When would we be having our first car or house?
- Who works and who stays at home? Are we both working?
- How much do you earn?
These are not uncomfortable questions, they are necessary ones.
Some people shy away from money discussions in relationships. But who pays the bills? Don’t assume you know… until you talk about it.
Courtship is the time to ask critical questions and gain clarity.
Money plays a major role in fulfilling dreams and creating stability. While it may not bring true joy—that comes from God—it provides comfort, honor, and a level of happiness.
Many marriages struggle today because of financial instability—and this can be avoided.
Proverbs 14:20 says:
“Wealth maketh many friends; but the poor is separated from his neighbour.”
Prioritize financial conversations as you grow together.
This doesn’t mean spending all your money on your partner during courtship—be wise. Financial commitment should not be 100% at this stage.
Support each other, yes—but avoid entitlement.
Because the truth is… what if the relationship doesn’t lead to marriage?
Be guided.
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— Written by Anu Mustapha
