If you work from home, for instance, your love life or expression has to be redefined. In fact, you may need to spend more time with the kids. Life is no longer the same.
In today’s complex world, you must ‘adjust’ and learn how to be a great Spouse. To be relevant, you must upgrade – even in marriage. Everything is shifting.
Many things have not returned back to how they used to be before Covid-19. Career paths and dreams have been redefined. Marriages have been affected. There is disruption everywhere. A.I is taking over.
However, the word of God remains the same and must still be our compass. Disruption cannot affect God and his principles.
Matthew 24 vs 35 – For I tell you truly, until heaven and earth pass away, not a single jot, not a stroke of a pen, will disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished.
Here is a possible scenario, a husband man lost his job to A.I and then his wife fortunately secures a good one with an international coy. Wouldn’t she gladly give her best at work to support her home, while her husband takes care of the kids at home – depending on their agreement or plan though?
If the man can spend his wife’s money, then he should be man a enough to help out in the kitchen too.
I mean, team work! Marriage teamwork is a feeling of togetherness, mutual support, and unity on multiple fronts, including finances, parenting, chores, sex, and emotional intimacy. It is ungodly for a Spouse to choose not to assist his partner with house chores when he or she is available.
Hey man, house chores won’t make you less of a man. Real men support their wives in every area.
The ‘Gen Zs’ should better wake up and be multifaceted in the word of God and in love, as rules are changing and games are revamping. They should learn to give than to receive. Selfishness is a major issue in marriage today.
The renewed man that is intentional about his marriage is blessed
Ephesians 5:25-29: Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church